That confidence and peace you're searching for?
It's hidden behind the masks you're wearing
Since when did being yourself start to feel like a performance? You’ve learned how to play the parts, but damn, those masks are heavy. You’re showing up for everyone else, yet quietly wondering: when do I get to show up as me?
You've taken the passenger princess life to a whole new level – letting old stories and expectations steer
It’s time to slam the door on performance and take the wheel.
Are you ready to finally slide back into the driver’s seat of your own life? Real freedom begins when you stop living for them and start living as The Real You™.
You've tried it all
Vision boards, podcasts, yoga, affirmations – yet nothing sticks.
You still doubt yourself, feel disconnected from your body, and question whether love, success, and freedom can really be yours.
The fear that if you stop performing, you won’t be chosen, keeps you stuck in the same patterns. So you stay busy, tick boxes, pour into others, settle for “almost right” – all while quietly craving more.
Those inherited codes: the family expectations, cultural conditioning, old wounds whispering “not enough” – keep pulling you back into survival mode. Until you release and rewrite them, the life you long for will always feel just out of reach.
But here's the truth: you're ready
To stop abandoning yourself to old patterns and survival mode – and finally get the love and life you deserve
That's where The Real You™ comes in
Using my signature method, we’ll work with your body, breath, energy, and voice to release the codes that kept you small – and re-anchor the ones that set you free. When your nervous system feels safe, your body feels like home, and your voice is liberated, confidence stops being a performance and starts being who you are.
introducing
The Real You™
A 4-month soul-deep journey to remember who you are, reclaim your power, and radiate your truth.
This isn’t just coaching. It’s a reclamation. Because when you feel safe in your body, connected to your heart, and unapologetic in your expression – you don’t just change… you glow differently.
By the end of The Real You™, you'll:
- Wake up calm, clear, and connected, instead of spiralling in "what will they think?"
- Look in the mirror without shame – and actually love who you see
- Speak your truth without rehearsing it 10 times in your head
- Stop outsourcing your worth to partners, parents, or perfectionism
- Feel grounded in your body and magnetic in your energy – because you're finally free
your journey includes:
1 x 90-minute Initial Mapping Session
Clarify your vision, chart your nervous system patterns, identify what’s holding you back, and stack your personal toolbox.
3 x 90-minute Somatic Reclamation Sessions
Deep guided journeys to release conditioning and rewire new embodied truths across the 6 pillars.
8 x 60-minute Integration Sessions
Tailored online coaching and somatic support to weave the shifts into your everyday life.
The Real You™ Toolkit
Access to a library of workbooks, pre-recorded audios, guided meditations, somatic resets for those in-the-moment wobbles.
WhatsApp Support (Mon-Fri)
Your soul-level bestie in your back pocket – voice notes, guidance, and check-ins between sessions.
01. BOOK A CLARITY CALL
Book a clarity call so we can explore where you are, where you’re longing to be, and whether The Real You™ is the right journey to take you there.
02. SAY YES TO YOURSELF
Once you say yes to yourself, we’ll agree your start date. You’ll then receive your contract and payment link to secure your place in the container.
03. GET SUPPORTED FROM DAY ONE
Receive your onboarding form, welcome pack, and instant access to The Real You™ Toolkit, so you can begin softening the noise before we even meet.
04. BEGIN YOUR TRANSFORMATION
We’ll book your Mapping Session to set the foundation for everything that follows.
Tanvi’s Journey with The Real You
"This journey isn't about being 'fixed,' but about reclaiming what has always been mine: my voice, my value, and my power"
“When I began working with Virali, I was carrying weights that weren’t entirely mine – the unspoken expectation to be strong, to serve, to keep going at the cost of myself like so many women of colour. I knew this narrative well, but knowing it and undoing it are two very different things.
Working with Virali gave me a space free of judgment, where my void of loneliness softened into connection. For the first time, I felt safe enough to voice parts of me I had kept hidden, even from myself. With her guidance, I’ve untangled what is truly mine to hold, and what I can finally put down.
This work hasn’t been easy, but it has been liberating. I now carry myself with sharper awareness and more grace than I ever thought possible. The benefits pour into every aspect of life – from re-igniting passion for my business to developing a stronger self-concept. This journey isn’t about being ‘fixed,’ but about reclaiming what has always been mine: my voice, my value, and my power.
While I still make mistakes and slip into old habits, I know she continues to hold space for me through the ebb and flow. I feel like I’m becoming the version of me I always knew was possible.“
- Tanvi, Cinematic Content Creator
Do you ever feel like you're living on autopilot, following rules you never agreed to?
I'll help you break the cycle of self-abandonment and take back the driver's seat of your life.
I know what it’s like to be stuck in survival mode, repeating patterns that keep you doubting yourself. I’ve lived that story – and I chose to break the cycle.
I promise you don’t need to keep shrinking, settling, or waiting for “one day”. The version of you who feels grounded in her body, magnetic in her energy, and unapologetically herself is already here. She’s just waiting for you to choose her.
The only question is: are you ready?
Frequently Asked Questions
What do you mean by ‘codes’?
Before you became “you,” you were coded: shaped by culture, family, history, your body, and even your pain. These codes shaped what you believed about your worth, your body, your voice, your desires, and your place in the world. They taught you how to survive, but not how to be free.
The Real You™ Method helps you untangle five layers of inherited coding:
- Societal & Cultural Codes
Beauty standards, gender roles, and success narratives – the invisible rules that told you how to be a “good woman” while silencing your truth. - Family & Ancestral Codes
The unspoken rules you absorbed growing up. Generational trauma, silence, perfectionism, and survival patterns passed down through your lineage. - Body & Biological Codes
The imprints of shame and power stored in your body – from menstrual stigma and hormonal conditioning, to disconnection from pleasure and intuition. - Psychological & Emotional Codes
Attachment styles, inner child beliefs, and shame stories – the internalised narratives that keep you doubting your worth and seeking love in unsafe ways. - Spiritual & Energetic Codes
Feminine suppression, wounded archetypes, chakra imbalances, and distorted polarity patterns that keep your soul dimmed or disoriented.
Through this work, we don’t just talk about healing – we un-code it. Each session, practice, and ritual becomes a portal to gently rewrite these imprints – not through force, but through presence. This is how you stop performing confidence… and start embodying it.
What will we focus on together?
The Real You™ is supported by six energetic and emotional pillars. Together, they create the foundation for long-term, embodied change:
- Safety & Nervous System Grounding – shifting out of survival mode (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) so your body learns it’s safe to soften and expand, instead of burning out from overdoing, overthinking, or overgiving.
- Inner Child & Relational Healing – meeting the younger parts of you with compassion and rewriting attachment patterns that kept you stuck.
- Feminine Energy & Body Reconnection – restoring trust with your cycles, pleasure, and intuition so your body becomes your ally, not your enemy.
- Voice Liberation & Boundaries – reclaiming your voice, speaking your truth, and protecting your peace without guilt.
- Soul Embodiment & Magnetism – learning to radiate from alignment, not performance — so love, opportunities, and abundance flow naturally.
- Purpose Activation & Conscious Creation – anchoring clarity and courage to design a life that feels deeply, unapologetically yours.
Every session, practice, and space I hold draws from these pillars. The form may shift: a 1-1 coaching journey or a community circle, but the method remains the same: re-code the old patterns, anchor the new truths, and let your aura expand into its fullest expression.
Is this the right coaching for me?
This work isn’t for everyone. The Real You™ isn’t a quick fix or a “confidence hack.” I’m not here to hand you a step-by-step formula or guarantee you’ll be “fixed” in X weeks. Healing and reclamation don’t work that way.
What I am here to do is walk beside you as you come home to yourself – to support you in peeling back the masks, softening the survival patterns, and expanding into the woman you’re meant to be. That process takes radical self-responsibility, honesty, and willingness to sit with what’s uncomfortable as well as what’s beautiful.
The women who thrive in this work are the ones who are ready to say:
Truth → “I’m done pretending. I want to be fully me.”
Safety → “I’m willing to slow down and let my body lead.”
Sovereignty → “I don’t want answers handed to me – I want to find my own.”
Compassion → “I’m ready to meet every part of me with care, not criticism.”
Curiosity → “I’ll explore what comes up, instead of pushing it away.”
Connection → “I want healing that lasts because it’s rooted in relationship.”
If you’re looking for a coach to tell you exactly what to do, or a quick mindset shift that bypasses the body, I’m probably not the right fit.
But if you’re ready to walk into the real, messy, liberating work of unbecoming who you were told to be – and reclaiming who you truly are – then this is for you.
Do you offer different pricing or payment options?
The Real You™ program has Standard, Pro, and VIP tiers, and flexible payment plans are available for each. To explore what’s available and find an option that works best for you, simply mention it in your enquiry form or email me directly at virali@therealcoach.co.uk