Your soft and spicy sidekick who refuses to let you shrink for love ever again

I empower you to ditch the people-pleasing, feel safe in your body, and finally become the woman whose energy walks into the room before she does.

This didn’t start with a business plan or vision board.

It started with one sacred vow: I will never abandon myself again. Now I help women like you do the same.

If you’re tired of holding it all together, pretending you’re fine while screaming inside – welcome home

You were coded to shrink, smile, stay silent.

Now it’s your time to reclaim it all: your body, your boldness, your beautiful, unfiltered truth. No more faking it. No more mindset mantras without nervous system support.

Together, we’ll turn survival mode into self-respect, so you stop spiralling and start radiating. I’m here to walk beside you as you come home to The Real You™ – the version you’ve always felt, but never fully lived. Until now.

Hi, I’m Virali

Your spiritual sidekick, emotional mirror, and energetic hype woman

I created The Real Coach with one mission: to help women feel safe and powerful in their truth – not just in highlight-reel moments, but in the raw, quiet, messy middle of becoming.

You know, the part where you’re smiling on the outside but spiralling inside. Where your body feels like a battlefield instead of a home. Where your body’s begging you to slow down, but your brain’s still performing. Where your voice gets caught in your throat, and you wonder “Did I lose myself somewhere along the way?”

You haven’t. She’s still in there. I help you find her.

My work blends soul, science, and somatics to guide you out of the stories that made you shrink, silence yourself, or hustle for worth – and into the version of you that’s been waiting underneath it all

I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to walk with you through the wobbles, the grief beneath the people-pleasing, and the quiet “I want more” you’ve been scared to admit – so your nervous system can actually receive the healing your mind has been chasing.

Because you don’t need to be more healed, more confident, or more productive to be powerful.

You just need to feel safe being you – in your body, in your truth, in your own damn lane.

And that’s exactly what we do inside The Real You™.

Let’s make your energy speak first.

I’m not your average “let’s journal it out” coach

I’m the one who knows that what you write down won’t change a thing if your body still doesn’t feel safe enough to believe it

Because mindset alone isn’t what’s holding you back – it’s also your nervous system.

It’s the part of you that still flinches at conflict, still freezes when it’s time to speak, still fawns your way through relationships to avoid rejection. That’s not weakness. It’s your body’s code for survival. And together, we’ll rewrite it.

So no, you don’t need more affirmations or another morning routine. You need a space safe enough to unravel the armour – the one you built to survive.

That’s where I come in. I won’t bypass your pain with love and light, or hand you surface-level fixes. Instead, I help you get honest about the self-abandonment that’s shaped your choices, and walk you back home to the version of you that never needed fixing, just safety.

We slow down. We get curious. We meet the shame, the silence, the soft “I don’t know who I am anymore” – with breath, truth, and deep nervous system care.

This isn’t about performing confidence. It’s about reclaiming the woman you were before the world told you to shrink. And that is what changes everything.

From self-abandonment to self-love:

my becoming

I wasn’t the “good daughter”. Growing up in a strict South Asian household, I was the sensitive, rebellious one – told I wouldn’t amount to much.

For years, I abandoned myself. Hated my skin, hid behind filters, never felt safe in my body. Until I realised the boxes I was squeezing into were never meant for me.

That breaking point became my becoming.

I chose myself, piece by piece.

Through body image struggles and spiritual awakenings, I discovered my sensitivity wasn’t a flaw – it was my superpower. This journey led me to self-love coaching, somatic healing, and energy work. But more importantly, it led me home to myself. When you feel safe in your body, your whole energy shifts. You stop dimming and start radiating.

Now I guide women through the same alchemy. My softness grounds, my spice ignites – a blend that makes my work both a safe landing and powerful activation.

Through The Real You™ Method, I help you untangle inherited codes and remember: you were never broken. You were always whole.

You deserve a life that's fully, wildly yours

Imagine waking up calm, clear, and connected. Not spiralling after texts. Not walking on eggshells. Not shrinking for anyone’s version of “good”. Instead: grounded in your body, present in relationships, living on your terms.

That version of you isn’t missing – she’s buried under the people-pleasing and overthinking.

It’s time to bring her back.

What it’s like working with Virali

“Before starting The Real You, I was stuck in my head, full of self-doubt, and giving so much of my energy to others that I abandoned myself and my passion for dancing. I struggled with inconsistency, body image, and feeling like I wasn’t good enough. Since joining, I’m learning to come home to myself, feel safe in my body, and speak up, especially in moments where I’d normally shut down. I’m slowly releasing the fear of what people think so I can show up for little me and future me. The anxiety still lingers sometimes, but I’m breathing through it instead of abandoning myself. Now, when I dance, I feel empowered to be me, in my fullness.”

-Krupa, Choreographer & Dancer

My Certifications & Awards

Reiki Level 2 (Shoden) Practitioner

Michael Kauffman in the lineage of Mikao Usui (2024)

Self-Love Coaching Certification

ICF certified Self-Love Coaching Programme (2024)

Pro DJ

London Sound Academy (2025)

CPD/Diploma

Meditation, Trauma-Informed Coaching, somatic breathwork (2024/25)

Holistic Medicine Practioner

Member of International Practitioner of Holistic Medicine (2025)

Finalist, Women’s Champion

Digital Women’s Awards 2025

What if you woke up wondering: What magic is life bringing me today?

Let’s rewire the noise, drop the pressure, and let your glow speak louder than your doubt.